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Sunday, March 16, 2014

Jerry Lewis















Jerry Lewis
by Live Music Head

On this day, Jerry Lewis turns 88.
And so I remember growing up
watching the Labor Day Muscular Dystrophy Telethon
that he hosted and founded over fifty years ago;
a program that entertained us for two days straight 
while raising money for charity and marked the end of summer; 
a program that warmed our hearts, 
and saw us off into a brand new school year, 
for years. 
It was also a program that, 
if memory serves, 
was my first exposure to Jerry Lewis. 
Years later, I was fascinated to see him play 
opposite Robert De Niro in Martin Scorsese’s 1982 film 
The King of Comedy. 
What an amazing little film that is. 
I was also fascinated to read the interview he did 
with Amy Wallace in GQ Magazine in 2011. 
Look it up. 
It’s a great read. 
Also a great read is 
We’ll Be Here for The Rest of Our Lives, 
a book written by Paul Shaffer (Letterman’s sidekick) in 2009. 
Shaffer grew up watching the Telethon as well, 
and counts Jerry Lewis as a major idol. 
Shaffer told the story in the book 
of how excited he got to meet his idol, 
over brunch with their mutual friend Richard Belzer 
(stand-up comedian aka Det. Munch on Law & Order), 
and his disappointment over not impressing his idol 
when he interjected their conversation 
with tidbits from his life-long accumulation 
of Jerry Lewis minutiae. 
No matter how much Shaffer tried, 
all Lewis wanted to talk about was 
Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, 
of which he guest-starred in 2006 
and gave an absolutely brilliant performance 
as a depressed, homeless man caught up in 
the investigation of a brutal rape. 
The dramatic work of Jerry Lewis is amazing. 
But Lewis is best known as a genius slapstick comedian. 
And it will likely be his work 
as a genius slapstick comedian in a duo with Dean Martin 
that will be widely remembered.
For theirs was one of the most popular comedy duos in history, 
beginning in 1946 and ending, 
not on the best of terms, 
ten years later. 
I also grew up with The Rat Pack. 
So when Frank Sinatra instigated a reunion between 
Jerry and Dean
on the Telethon in 1976, 
it was a big moment in television...






Sunday, July 7, 2013

Friendship

Friendship
by Live Music Head


George Harrison (left) Ringo Starr (right) 
photographer unknown














The last time I visited a “friend” in the hospital,
my presence was barely acknowledged.
Whoever was text messaging her as she sat up in bed
was far more important
than showing respect toward someone 
standing there in front of her;
someone who came out of their way to visit in person,
and brought healing gifts.
The friend who respectfully shut off their own cell phone
before entering the hospital room
wasn't even thanked for the healing gifts.
Focusing on bringing positive energy to the situation,
I kept offering conversation when it was largely ignored.
And I kept smiling despite the gnawing in my gut.
When I set out to help this “friend”,
I was genuinely happy to do so,
excited that she was going to be alright
and that she had asked me to come.
I repeat: she asked me to come.
But I left the hospital that night feeling more than just a little
under-appreciated.
Despite that, I offered to come again
preferably at a time when my visit would 
carry a little more value.
I was told she didn’t know when that would be,
that she had 
“A building list of people who are dropping by at some point”.
"Besides," she went on to tell me,
"the last time you were here, 
I did ignore a couple of calls.”
Nothing like making a person feel unworthy 
of being on their "friend"'s exclusive guest list.
Needless to say, 
but I never went back.
Suddenly I had a million and three more important things to do
than stand around a hospital room 
listening to other people’s angry telephone calls,
or trying to make eye contact with someone 
who’s always looking down,
wondering if they would ever get ‘round 
to thanking me for coming,
or asking, “and how are you?”
So impressive these people are who tell other people 
how grateful they should be
when they demonstrate the least amount of gratitude themselves.
Too, these same people are usually in the habit of
alienating their friends by 
constantly telling them how busy they are.
Like there’s anyone in today’s world who isn’t busy?
More appreciation and gratitude was shown me when
I took an apple from my grocery bag and handed it to
a random homeless person on the street.
What Ringo Starr tells us that George Harrison said to him
(while lying on his death bed)
in this clip from the Martin Scorsese film 
Living in the Material World,
speaks to what, 
for me, 
true friendship is...